Avoid the usual mistakes tourists tend to make in Japan

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Japan is one of the most fascinating travel destinations on the planet. It’s a place where ancient traditions exist alongside neon-lit skyscrapers, where ordering food from a vending machine is as normal as visiting a centuries-old shrine.

But for all its wonders, Japan also has a unique set of social norms that can trip up even the most well-intentioned traveler. If you want to be a good tourist in Japan—the kind locals appreciate rather than tolerate—there are a few things you need to know.

Respect the Art of Queuing

Japanese society thrives on order, and that extends to something as simple as standing in line. Whether you’re waiting for a train, an elevator, or a bowl of ramen, cutting the line or standing haphazardly will earn you more than a few side-eyes.

At train stations, you’ll find marked lines on the ground showing where to stand, and when the train arrives, wait for people to exit before boarding. No shoving, no rushing, and definitely no trying to squeeze in last-minute before the doors close.

Keep the Noise Down

Japan isn’t a silent country, but public spaces tend to be noticeably quieter than what many Westerners are used to. Talking loudly on trains, playing music without headphones, or having a raucous conversation in a restaurant is considered inconsiderate. If you need to take a phone call, step outside or find a quiet corner. In general, aim to blend in rather than dominate the soundscape.

Mind Your Chopstick Etiquette

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Chopsticks aren’t just utensils in Japan—they’re cultural symbols with specific rules. Sticking them upright in a bowl of rice is a big no-no, as it resembles a funeral ritual. Passing food directly from chopstick to chopstick is another major faux pas, as this mimics the way bones are handled during cremation ceremonies.

If you need to share food, use the opposite end of your chopsticks to serve. And for the love of all things sushi, do not stab your food.

Don't Eat in the Street

In many parts of the world, grabbing a snack and strolling down the street is second nature, but in Japan, it's generally frowned upon. Eating while walking is seen as messy and inconsiderate, particularly in crowded urban areas. Instead, if you buy street food, find a designated eating area or stand to the side before digging in.

Exceptions exist, like at festivals where food stalls are set up specifically for snacking, but in everyday life, keeping food consumption stationary is the polite move. Oh, and absolutely DO NOT litter, it’s considered the lowest of the low in Japan!

Learn a Few Basic Japanese Phrases

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You don’t need to be fluent in Japanese, but a few polite phrases go a long way. “Arigatou gozaimasu” (thank you very much), “sumimasen” (excuse me/sorry), and “onegaishimasu” (please) are incredibly useful. Even if you butcher the pronunciation, making an effort will earn you smiles and goodwill. Don’t assume that everyone speaks English—many people don’t, and those who do may be shy about using it.

Cash is Still King

Despite Japan’s futuristic image, it’s still largely a cash-based society. While major cities and larger stores are adapting to credit cards and mobile payments, many smaller businesses, temples, and even some restaurants only accept cash.

ATMs at convenience stores like 7-Eleven are your best bet for withdrawing yen, as many bank ATMs don’t accept foreign cards. Always carry enough cash to avoid an awkward ‘no card’ situation.

Public Transport Manners Matter

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Tokyo’s rush-hour trains are legendary for their sardine-can levels of congestion, but even outside of peak times, etiquette is key. Priority seats are meant for the elderly, disabled, and pregnant women—don’t sit there unless you truly need to.

If a train is crowded, take off your backpack and hold it in front of you to avoid whacking people. And no, eating on trains isn’t a thing unless you’re on a long-distance Shinkansen, where bento boxes are practically a rite of passage.

Tipping is Not Expected (and Can Be Awkward)

Unlike many Western countries, tipping in Japan isn’t customary and can sometimes be seen as rude. Service workers take pride in their job and don’t expect extra money for doing it well. If you try to leave a tip at a restaurant, your server may chase you down to return it. If you really want to show appreciation, a simple “arigatou gozaimasu” and a respectful bow will do the trick.

Onsen Etiquette is Non-Negotiable

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Japanese hot springs, or onsen, are an amazing cultural experience, but they come with strict rules. First, you must wash thoroughly before entering the communal bath—this isn’t just a quick rinse, but a full soaping up and scrubbing at the provided showers. Bathing suits are not allowed; nudity is expected.

Tattoos can be an issue, as they’re historically associated with the yakuza, so if you have one, check if the onsen allows tattoos, or adhere to rules about using leg and arm covers or wearing a t-shirt.

Be Considerate with Your Trash

Japan is one of the cleanest countries you’ll ever visit, but public trash cans are surprisingly rare. The expectation is that people take their trash home or dispose of it in designated bins at convenience stores. Don’t leave garbage lying around, and if you’re carrying a snack, be prepared to carry the wrapper with you until you find a proper bin.

Photography: Ask Before You Snap

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Japan is incredibly photogenic, but not everything is fair game for your Instagram. In temples and shrines, check for signs before taking photos, as some places forbid photography out of respect.

If you’re in a residential area, be mindful that people actually live there—no one wants to wake up to tourists taking pictures of their front door. And if you want a picture with a geisha in Kyoto, don’t chase them down the street; they are professionals, not theme park characters.

Final Thoughts

Being a good tourist in Japan isn’t about memorizing a rulebook—it’s about being observant, respectful, and willing to adapt. If you follow these guidelines, not only will you have a smoother trip, but you’ll also gain a deeper appreciation for the country’s customs and culture. Japan is an incredible place, and by being a thoughtful visitor, you’ll make it even better—for yourself and for those around you.